Lot: A Legacy of Compromise

Genesis 13-19

Personal Note: I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you joining us in this study and being part of the Living Grounded community. We are working through the Old Testament using the acronym CAMDE-400 (Creation-Abraham-Moses-David-Elijah-400). I introduced this acronym in the Weekend Recharge. Once we have completed the Old Testament, I will introduce a New Testament acronym for us to use as well.

Before we look at God’s story in the lives of Isaac and Rebekah, let’s backtrack to consider a man named Lot. He leaves us with valuable lessons to apply and to teach our children.  

What comes to mind when you read or hear the word “compromise”? It’s not always a bad thing. Every healthy relationship involves give-and-take. No one should always get their way. But when we compromise in our relationship with God, we set ourselves up for failure. Let’s consider the dangers of spiritual compromise through the story of Lot, which begins in Genesis 13. 

Lot’s father, Haran, died when Lot was young. His mother is never mentioned. Lot was raised by his grandfather, Terah. After Terah died, Lot accompanied his uncle and aunt, Abraham and Sarah, to the land of Canaan. When famine struck, the family went to Egypt. Despite Abraham’s deceitful ploy to pass his wife off as his sister, God blessed them. Both Abraham and Lot left Egypt as wealthy men (Gen. 13:2, 5). In fact, their possessions “were so great that they could not dwell together,” causing tension between their herdsmen (Gen. 13:6-7).

To end their dispute, Abraham made a gracious offer. He let Lot choose where to settle, and Abraham agreed to go in the other direction (Gen. 13:8-9). So, Lot “lifted up his eyes and saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere like the garden of the LORD, like the land of Egypt…” (Gen. 13:10). He chose the land where his prosperity could continue easily, even though it meant settling his family near the wicked city of Sodom. That’s where Lot’s life of compromise began. Here’s what we learn about compromise from this sordid account.

Compromise leaves us weak and vulnerable. 
While Lot lived in Sodom, Abraham twice acted to rescue him and his family. First, Abraham rescued Lot when Lot’s entire family, along with their possessions, was captured in an attack on the city (Gen. 14:1-16). The patriarch again interceded on Lot’s behalf and that of his family when Abraham learned that God would destroy the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah because of their wickedness (Gen. 18:16-33).[1] 

When we live a life of compromise and shortcut God’s best for us, we will always be spiritually weak and vulnerable. Certainly, God is gracious in rescuing, but the consequences can be devastating and have a lasting effect…as we’ll see in Lot’s leadership of his family. 

Compromise makes us hypocrites.
When Abraham’s visitors, two angels appearing in human form, arrived in Sodom in the evening, Lot invited them to stay with him for their safety. Soon, the men of Sodom surrounded Lot’s house, demanding to have sex with his visitors. It was bad enough that Lot had settled with his family in a city known for its wickedness (Gen. 13:13), but to protect his visitors, Lot offered his two daughters to the men instead (Gen. 19:8). Unbelievable! Unthinkable! Hypocritical!  

That’s what happens when we live in a state of compromise. We get worked up over someone else’s sin while embracing our own. Compromise makes us all hypocrites. As Jesus told the religious leaders, we choke on a gnat while swallowing a camel (Matt. 23:24). 

A compromised leader leads a compromised team. 
Compromise impacts all those around us. Notice how Lot’s family responded to the coming judgment. 

• When Lot told his future sons-in-law about the coming destruction, they thought he was joking. Scripture notes, “he seemed to his sons-in-law to be jesting” (Gen. 19:14).
• When the angels urged Lot, “Up! Take your wife and your two daughters. . . lest you be swept away in the punishment of the city,” they “lingered” without urgency. The angels had to “seize” them to lead the family safely out of the city (Gen. 19:16).  
• As the family was fleeing and God was raining down sulfur and fire on the city, Lot’s wife looked back longingly at what they had in Sodom and “became a pillar of salt” (Gen. 19:26). Jesus gave this warning: “Remember Lot’s wife! Whoever tries to keep their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life will preserve it” (Luke 17:32-33 NIV).

After the ordeal was over, Lot and his daughters lived in the hills, far from any other people. Fearing they could not find husbands, both daughters got their father drunk, slept with him, and became pregnant (Gen. 19:30-32). The oldest named her son Moab, the father of the Moabites. The youngest named her son Ben-ammi, the father of the Ammonites. Lot’s descendants became sworn enemies of Israel. We will read about them throughout our study of the Old Testament. 

Temptation has three battlefronts: the world, the flesh, and the devil, who is behind it all. The world normalizes sins and makes compromise feel like the right thing to do. Our flesh falls in line, willing to live a life of comfort and ease. But walking with God is not a life of compromise. German pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer put it well: 

The cross is laid on every Christian. The first Christ-suffering which every man must experience is the call to abandon the attachments of this world. It is that dying of the old man which is the result of his encounter with Christ . . . When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.[2] 

PERSONAL TIME WITH GOD

Reading and reflection: Genesis 13-19. Where am I currently making decisions based more on comfort, success, or convenience than on faithfulness to God? What “well-watered plains” might be subtly pulling my heart away from obedience?

Talking to God: Ask God to show you any areas of compromise in your life. 

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