Leah: The Rejected And Redeemed

Genesis 29-30

Personal Note: I am writing this the day after Lori and I returned from a mission trip to Panama with our son, Garrison, and his daughter, our oldest grandchild. We had a wonderful trip! We are thankful that all our kids have had cross-cultural experiences, and we want to encourage similar experiences for our grandchildren. This was our first step toward that family goal!  

Parents—I challenge you to take the opportunity to go on mission trips with your children. Grandparents—I challenge you, if you are able, to do the same with the next generation.

When studying Genesis 29-30, I usually focus on Jacob and Laban. You can listen to my teaching on their story by clicking the links below. But today I want us to follow a woman named Leah. God’s story in Leah is sobering yet profoundly powerful.

Rejected. Invisible. Lonely. Unloved. Pushed aside. Have you ever felt that way? Leah always came in second. Scripture reveals that her younger sister Rachel was “beautiful in form and appearance,” while Leah’s eyes lacked brightness and luster (Gen. 29:17). 

Rachel was gorgeous. Leah was plain. That’s why Jacob fell head-over-heels in love with Laban’s younger daughter. His feelings for Rachel ran so deep that the seven years he agreed to work for her hand in marriage felt like mere days (Gen. 29:20). 

The wedding was a grand celebration; however, the bride’s face remained veiled throughout the ceremony and festivities. That night, the marriage was consummated, but the next morning Jacob made an appalling discovery. The woman beside him was not who he had believed her to be! 

Scripture says it this way: “And in the morning, behold, it was Leah!” (Gen. 29:25). 

Jacob confronted his father-in-law, Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?” (Gen. 29:25). The word “deceive” (Heb. ramah) is the same term used in Genesis 27:35 to describe Jacob’s deception in receiving Esau’s blessing. He was now the one feeling angry and betrayed, experiencing “what goes around comes around.” 

After Leah’s bridal week, Laban agreed that Rachel could become Jacob’s wife in exchange for seven additional years of service. Thus, Jacob began his married life with two wives—the wife of deception and the wife of his dreams.

When God saw that Rachel was the object of Jacob’s affections while Leah was rejected and forgotten, he granted Leah the gift of children. You can feel her emotions with the birth of each son. 

Leah named her firstborn Reuben (“look,” “reveal”), saying, “Because the Lord has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me” (Gen. 29:32). She was certain that her misery would be alleviated because her husband would surely love her. 

Leah’s second son was named Simeon (“heard”). She said, “Because the Lord has heard that I am hated, he has given me this son also” (Gen. 29:33). Stay with Leah in this moment and feel her deep longing to be accepted and loved by her husband. 

She named her third son, Levi (“attached”), thinking, “Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons” (Gen. 39:34). 

No doubt Jacob loved his sons, but his primary love and affection were reserved for Rachel. When Leah had her fourth son, she named him Judah (“praise”), saying, “This time I will praise the LORD” (Gen. 29:35). Her focus was on Yahweh. Leah understood that true meaning, acceptance, significance, and satisfaction are found in God alone. 

This is a key truth for all of us. You cannot find in another person what is found in God alone. Yahweh is the only one who can satisfy the deepest longing of our hearts.  

Being beautiful and singularly loved did not bring Rachel happiness or contentment. She had yet to become pregnant, and she grew extremely jealous of her sister. The term for “jealousy” used here (Heb. qanne) means “to get heated, annoyed, envious.” She told Jacob, “Give me children, or I shall die!” (Gen. 30:1). Jacob was furious with Rachel[1] and replied, “Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?” (Gen. 30:2). 

Rachel gave Jacob her servant Bilhah to serve as a surrogate mother. Leah responded by giving Jacob her servant Zilpah to do the same. The situation became a competition to bear children. In the end, Leah had six sons and one daughter, and her servant Zilpah bore Jacob two more sons. 

Rachel’s servant Bilhah also had two sons. Then Rachel finally gave birth to a son whom she named Joseph. But the one who had told Jacob, “Give me children, or I shall die,” died soon after giving birth to her second son. Knowing she was near death, Rachel named her newborn son Ben-Oni (“son of my sorrow” or “son of my suffering”). Jacob, however, changed his name to Benjamin (“son of my right hand”). 

It was a defining moment. Rachel gave her son a name that signified pain and loss. Jacob changed the name to reflect honor and dignity. Benjamin was Jacob's last son.

Let’s take time to consider a few powerful and lasting outcomes of God’s story in Leah and Rachel. 

The twelve sons of Jacob become the twelve tribes of Israel. We will follow them throughout the Old Testament. There will be times of unity. Together, they will conquer the promised land and establish a kingdom that honors God. 

However, there will also be devastating periods of division among the brothers. Envy and jealousy will tear them apart, mirroring their mothers’ tenuous relationship. Civil war will split them: the brothers, once a united nation, will divide into two separate kingdoms. Ultimately, both kingdoms will be overthrown and taken captive after they reject God and turn to idol worship. But God will never forget them, and he will never leave them.

Jesus will come from the tribe of Judah and be called the “Lion of the tribe of Judah” (Rev. 5:5). At one point during the great tribulation, God will seal 12,000 from each of the twelve tribes, and they will boldly proclaim the gospel (Rev. 7:4-8). 

And—are you ready for this? 

In the new heaven and the new earth, we will see a beautiful wall with twelve gates surrounding the holy city, Jerusalem. There, “on the gates, the names of the twelve tribes of the sons of Israel [will be] inscribed” (Rev. 21:12).

Leah, the lonely, rejected, and unloved wife, will have her eight sons' names inscribed on those eternal gates! The Lord truly blesses the brokenhearted![2]  

PERSONAL TIME WITH GOD

Reading and reflection: Genesis 29-30. Where are you tempted to look for affirmation, security, or worth in people rather than in God.

Talking to God: What has that pursuit produced in your heart?

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